Why You Dont Write Your Book
In the ten years that I’ve taught people how to get on withtheir books and creative projects, I’ve noticed a phenomenonthat I’ll call “Author’s Block.” Would-be writers can, indeed,sit down and work when pressed to it. The problem is thatthey’re not so sure they want the pressure of being an author.But they do want it. But they don’t. And so on.
Ah, the agony of getting on with your book.
Well, I’m here to diffuse that situation with a list of the keyreasons we have trouble sticking to our writing or othercreative projects. Perhaps this will help the next time you findyourself polishing doorknobs instead of sitting down to work.
Check all that apply to you:
You Lie To Yourself About Why You Can’t Write The Book
You think your stalling is about lack of time, or too muchpressure at work, or not enough solitude in the evening. Butguess what? Chances are a deeper, darker reason may be at play,like ‘I’m not supposed to be bigger than Mom’ or ‘What if thisthing really takes off?’
You Fear The Impact Your Book Could Have
Sometimes when I coach writers in my Self-Help Author’s CrashCourse I’ll ask them what’s impeding their progress. And aftersome probing, it will come out that they’re afraid of the bigexposure a book can have if it takes off. I’m here to assure youthat should that happen, (and chances are your book will notunleash wild mobs of millions) you will be able to handle it.How do I know? On that deep level where psyche meets karma, youwon’t create a single reader more than you’re ready to receive.
You Think Your Book Doesn’t Matter, So Why Bother?
One writer I know put this succinctly: “I’ve tried getting up at5AM to write, or staying up late, or even leaving my home, butnone of it works. I have this tired feeling that none of myeffort is going to amount to a hill of beans.” In fact, writingand publication can be an entirely self-determined activitythese days. If the publishing pundits don’t go for your book,there’s always the option of self-publishing paperback editionsor e-books and selling them on online booksellers or yourwebsite. In other words, your book DOES matter, and you reallyhave no excuse. (Acid test: if the book keeps on patientlyurging you to sit down and write it for months and even years,chances are you’d better do it.)
You Think You Don’t Know How To Write A Book
Guess what? Neither does any other first time writer. And thatmay be a wonderful thing. As a beginner, you don’t approach yourbook project with a carload of professional expectations anddemands from your process. You can just be open, like… well, anice blank book. All you really need is your intuition to guideyou, and the will to write your book as honestly as you can.
You Have No Support
You need someone in your corner, cheering you on, to get throughthe long and somewhat tiring process of birthing a book.
Becausewriters need a way to show up and be accountable for theirprogress. They need someone to keep saying, ‘Yes, you really cando this,” or even “How’s it going?” Minds can be tricky anddifficult when fully challenged by something like a book. Andsteady external support is the best way around that.
You’re Afraid You’ll Run Out Of Material
There isn’t a writer out there who hasn’t had this fear. And I’mhere to say that if you just stay loose and open, and willing toreceive the ideas, they will show up. All you have to do iscommit - really sit down, and begin to bring that book intobeing - and the work will magically appear. Sometimes it won’tflow that easily, and sometimes it will scare you with its speedand power. But it will, indeed, show up.
You Think ‘Who Am I to Write a Book?’
And yet, you are the perfect person to write your book, becauseyou’re the one chosen to receive this material. (You don’t haveto be spiritually inclined to believe this.) I personallybelieve that books are given to us when we’re ready to receivethem… and when we do, our lives are changed by that process.
You Fear Uncomfortable Moments
Ah, but that’s the most exciting thing about writing your book.You will be given challenges and lessons that just seemuntenable along the way. And if you’re committed enough, you’llrise above them and so become stronger in the process. This isespecially true for self-help books: we naturally write what weneed to learn.
Got a few categories checked off from the list above? Good!Awareness is the first step to diffusing your fears. Meanwhile,PLEASE do get on with your book … despite your misgivings. Notonly do you deserve this work - so do we.
About the Author: Suzanne Falter-Barns co-leads The Writer’s Spa, a week-long,nurturing retreat for anyone with a book on their mind. Taos,NM, August, 2005. Learn more athttp://www.howmuchjoy.com/writerspa.html. ©2005 Suzanne Falter-Barns LLC. You may reprint this, butit must be complete and include all contact informationabove.
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